IT’s Time to start being PHUCKING HAPPY!
So you have thrown your hands to the sky and screamed at the top of your lungs “I’m DONE”- “I WANT MORE FOR MYSELF”-” ENOUGH OF THIS CRAP” “ITS TIME FOR SOME ME TIME”- “It’s time to start being HAPPY“
Ohhh what a beautiful place to be at… and I was there 10 years ago~
Ok so now what? How do you start the process of change? How do you know Its Time to START BEING HAPPY? You know there needs to be a change but how the phuck do you do it? There is; rent, bills, food, screaming kids, a job, work outs, sleep, taking kids to where ever kids need to go, and on and on and on and on…correct! So how does one find time to actually breath and pee more than even trying to attempt to make a change in their life?
Hummmm real- real good question – and I can tell you from my own path and exprience that the first… the very first thing is consciously you in your mind have to WANT IT!! Let me say that once again because its so phucking important YOU HAVE TO WANT IT!!!! That want needs to be for you! Not the kids, the job, the boy/girl friend, husband/wife, the work place, the people next door, to have better this or that…don’t get me wrong those can all be the positive side effects but that can not be the only motivator- because attaching to an out come that may or may not happen leads to possible disappointment which will then take you into suffering, once this happens we may all together give up on whatever small changes we have tried to make claiming ‘phuck it this shit doesn’t work!’
So does one just show up at Everest with a pair of shoes and a backpack and say “yup I think I’ll climb this today”….not phucking likely right, so why would you think that after years of repeating a certain habit, trait, or lifestlye that overnight it will just magically change. It doesn’t work like that, but what I can tell you, what I can promise you is small little itty bitty changes each day ad up….to a totally new life before you know it – trust me I speak from experience. At a certain point you stop look back and say “wow I am not the same person I use to be” and it feel soooooooooo damn good!!!