Divorce, Break ups, Loss…Why is this our turning Point to be Better #IYP ‘Longevity’
What is up beautiful People? Today we talk Divorce and why we get better for self after it!
Let us all be Better Now ~ You know what time it is…it’s time to get inspired, time to get some abstract thoughts…the one’s that may make you go HUMMM?!! So as always I only speak from my personal experience, my personal journey and all the lesson’s I have been fortunate to learn and blessed to be taught…and even been able to study under some frigging amazing teachers that come from far away lands with that ancient knowledge…blessed!
What I want to rant on today is about a subject that boggles my mind yet at the same time we have all fallen under it’s spell before…its the comfort zone of a poor relationship and then once that relationship end’s its like we morph into another being trying to attact it’s next comfort mate to take away our fear of loneliness, possible unhappiness, boredom, laziness…whatever the issue or issues are in our life at that moment.
Call it looking back, hindsight, seeing it from a different perspective looking from the outside looking in…blah blah blah- I can say this it’s one of 3 things for me; fear, not knowing yourself, and not knowing what it is you want from a partner or out of life in general. Speaking for myself (as I always and forever will hold my feet to fire first and foremost) I spent more time researching a car or a studio microphone, computer, kitchen appliance, over the female I wanted in my life, the friends I wanted to be around, my home environment. I mean I basically looked for all the outside factor’s to make me happy but never once paid attention to what my inside’s, my soul, my heart, my higher self, whatever you want to call it…I never asked what is it that I want? What was I craving, what was I looking for, what was I attracting?
Deep hey…so I was forced to learn the lesson over and over and over again until the universe said yes you have passed this test — on to the next lesson ou need to learn in life. This has become very forefront in my life as of late not for myself but for those around me going through it. I am only speaking of my insight’s not judgement’s, a common thread that all these people including myself share from; we get to a certain point or a certain age and realize this just in not working (currently this is for people whom have been together 8–12 years so not teens anymore type deal)
The sad thing is that we let ourself go…phuck me- we give up on ourself say that one out loud with me so it sink’s in…We Give Up On Ourslef…and this cut’s me like a knife (shoutout to Brian Adam’s)it hurt’s because how or why would we let our health, happiness, confidence go, why would we let our bright light be dimmed by the conformity, comfort, ease, routine, Phuck I mean it we become, I became comfortable, I became civilized…I truly became a little BITCH that took it daily just to say I had someone, we all do this is our own way. We gain massive amouts of weight, we age, we get grumpy as phuck we become those old cranky phucks no one wants to be around!! And for what reason? It’s simple because we don’t know ourself…we don’t have a phukcing clue who we are or what it is we want so we SETTLE 🙁
The thing I see happening currently with all my peeps going through this is this as well, we get out of one relationship and we try to get back on track; to lose weight, eat better, look better, feel better, have more energy, work out, be happier…all to what…wait for it… to phukcing attract someone else!!! WOW. It’s not like we honestly do this for us, I mean I truly wish that was the case, but I bet 90% of the time it’s not because we are so unconfident so lonely so whatever…all that hide’s though is the underlying FEAR that none of us, not one single one of us wants to be alone- because we are scared to be alone and in the end DIE alone! BOOM let’s put that in our pipe and smoke it.
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