How to Be a Single Dad, Single Parent, it’s all good if you make is so Part 2 #IYP
We contiune the talk about the changes being made and that needed to be made to under take a healthier life style, to create positivity and happiness. This is for all the parents out there single or not trying to do the best they can to provide for thier loved ones.
However, please please do not get it messed up that, providing for other’s mean’s you either give up on yourself or forget about yourself! That is unacceptable! Being Single does not mean you are the answer for all those around you.
Why you ask?
That is a simple one, once we go from selfishness to selflessness I think life begins to change or better yet our perspective on life begins to change, and it is at this point where I personally think we can BEGIN, yes BEGIN, not PERFECT what it is to have a direction and focus for what we want our life, and the lives of those we love to look like. The single life truly can be the most amazing life, if we let it~
Guess What that Direction most likely start’s with YOUR HEALTH!
Yes you heard me, your health. Why is it that all of us always always put everything and everyone ahead of our own needs. Myself I personally think women do this way way more than men, and from expirence I tend to do this all the time for the needs or wants of the women in my life. All becasue at the base of our issues in this little emotion called GUILT, which is also an EGO based state.
An example of this would be (again from experience) if someone ask’s you let’s say for a dinner or a coffee, and let’s say for the issues at hand you have been extremely busy and are tired, and to do this ‘thing’ you would be giving up some of your personal time, which coud include working out, relaxing reading a book, a bath, a message…fill in the blank! Yet we forgo on our RECHARGE time (because that is exactly what that is By the Way) to not offend, or so that they do not think poorly of us, or FOMO (fear of missing out), or so they still like us, or what ever bull shit story it is our head that we tell ourselves.
Do we do this because we think the world would stop spinning if we did not show up, do we think that we are so important to that someone that their world would fall apart if we did not show up?
Ego and GUILT all built in and programmed into us since the tender young ages of 0-7!! #FACTS!!
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